So after years of trying, you’ve finally managed to get clean and sober. While you are rightfully feeling pretty good about yourself, the hard part, staying sober, actually begins now.Many addicts relapse for a variety of reasons. Here are 5 of the most common triggers for both newly recovering addicts and those with years of sobriety under their belt.
This is a very common reason for relapse and one to be wary of at certain times of the year. The temptation to indulge can be enormous when the world and his wife appear to be imbibing and getting into the swing of festivities.
It is vital as a recovering addict that we put measures in place to guard against what can seem like overwhelming temptation. What can help strengthen our resolve is telling our loved ones if we are feeling vulnerable, having someone to look out for us and to whom we can be accountable. Whenever possible, avoid situations that may encourage your relapse. Speak to your recovery group or sponsor if you have one. Remember to always be prepared, use the tools you learned in rehab and remind yourself of what you were like before you got sober.
Whether it’s about work, financial concerns or relationship worries, we all have times when we experience stress and need to work harder to maintain our recovery. Stress is one of the biggest reasons people reach for their substance of choice—wanting to take a break from reality for a short space of time.
Learning to manage our stress in more productive ways will guard it from causing a relapse. You can do this by exercising regularly, sleeping well and eating a healthy diet. Some meditation, time out for yourself and willingness to ask for support during a stressful situation can do wonders in reducing your stress levels and preventing it from becoming a trigger.
Being tired and cranky leaves us feeling emotional and more susceptible to a relapse. When we’re tired, we become like cantankerous children—snappy, irritable and unreasonable. This is the perfect set of emotions that can lead to us blowing our serenity and reaching for our old coping strategies.
The importance of getting a regular night’s sleep cannot be overemphasized.
Maintaining our equilibrium and functioning in a calm and thoughtful manner is pivotal when it comes to staying sober. If you find it difficult to sleep, try breathing exercises, a hot bath or a warm milky drink before bed. If nothing seems to help, speak to your doctor.
Boredom is one of the most common feelings in early recovery that can lead to a relapse. Once we are over the “pink cloud” of our initial achievement, we often struggle to find activities that fill the huge amount of time we used to spend abusing substances. Now that we are no longer using, the amount of drama in our lives is vastly reduced. This is when boredom sets in.
You have to put effort in finding new activities to fill the time you spent using your substance of choice. This can be anything, including sports, exercise, reading, a new hobby, watching TV, journaling, tidying up around the house or something you used to enjoy before you started using. The options are virtually endless. Find something that will distract you and take your mind off the urge to use.
This is one for those with longer sobriety. Complacency is a very dangerous thing. It can make us feel as though we’ve already made it to the top and cause us to relax our vigilance. Truth is, this is the time we are actually highly vulnerable to a relapse. It is crucial that you always remain vigilant, keep in touch with your support group, attend meetings if you have to–anything that reminds you of the continuous work that needs to be done in order to maintain sobriety.
Although recovery gets easier with time, it is also often easy to forget where we came from. Even many years down the line, we must always remind ourselves about the risks that come with complacency.
For as long as you remain aware of the most common causes of a relapse, you’ll be able to successfully guard your sobriety. It pays to always remember that when it comes to staying clean, your abstinence is dependent on your continued vigilance.
Original Article from SoberRecovery.com